Sometimes people come to me for a reading, and their work cards are all great - bright and glowing, with energy and movement. But their love cards are stagnant, with no flow there at all. So I say, work is easy right now, put your energy there and you will get quick rewards. Maybe you should ease off looking for love and focus on your work.
One of my clients said to me, you've been saying that for three years. Really? I checked my notes and she was right, her work cards are always Aces, connecting, networking, getting promoted, all of that comes effortlessly to her. But love doesn't. So I said to her, what are you doing at work, that you aren't doing in relationships? And without hesitating she said, "I know my value at work." But with people, with men, she was not as confident.
So we spent the session talking about transferring some of that confident self knowledge from work, and putting it more into play with dating. She can instantly recognize if a project has potential, needs nursing, needs to be scrapped. Can she do that analysis on every 3rd date? Maybe she is rejecting too soon, or nursing the connection along too much, or not scrapping it when it is clearly going nowhere. But if she gives herself this task, go on three plus dates with anyone, then do an analysis, and see if that gets her more of what she wants. She thought that was an interesting idea. We'll have to wait and see if the cards get warmer once she starts doing this.
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