Go where the love is

In a reading today,  a client said that she took to heart the words of Maria Bamford,  who says of her life,  I try to go where the love is.  That's such a simple and clear directive.  We should all go towards where the love is for us.  

At the end of the reading I said something that is very true for me - my wish for her,  for all my clients, for myself and for my family,  is that we are comfortable in our skin.  

For each of us,  that will be something different,  but my new year's blessing to everyone is that may you feel more comfortable in your own skin in 2026,  and may the world resonate with that comfort.  Amen. 

What does success look like

Did a tarot reading for a woman recently who asked me with tears in her eyes 'what does success look like?'  It's such a personal question.  Success can be anything,  depending on where you are coming from.  But many people read their success from the opinions of others - family and friends,  but also strangers.  Why are we giving people such power in lives?  People we may never meet,  people we actually don't like,  and somehow their opinion colors us. 

There's a wonderful card in the Tarot - the last card of the Major Arcana,  called the World Card.

When you draw it,  I say that you are not the center of the world, but the center of your own world,  you are comfortable in your own skin,  you feel you are in the right place at the right time. 

The world card,  that's what success looks like!