I see this so often in readings. A desire for perfection spoiling the pretty good moments. People have this around weddings, where everything has to be 'perfect' and of course it won't be, because nothing is perfect and then after the wedding, all the focus is on what went wrong and how awful the person/situation was that unwittingly spoilt the event.
But even on things not as dramatic as weddings - people just want the holiday, the apartment, the new job - they want it all to work out perfectly. And instead of celebrating the good, they focus on what doesn't work.
And the cards are so ruthless. They draw the 4 of cups or the Devil - cards showing them getting lost in their dreams and not seeing the good in front of them, or repeating bad patterns.
So if this is happening to you, if you feel constantly disappointed/stressed, give yourself a moment to focus on what is really going on. Is it good enough or do we have to go and change it? But don't expect perfection, that guarantees disappointment...
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