When people come to see me, they usually want to talk about one of three things - Love, Work or Am I on the Right Path. They can talk about all three of course, but one of these is usually the initiating factor.
Before heading to the holiday season, I though I would talk about love for a minute. (I'll talk about work and path in January, whose new year of 2020 is a benediction for clearer insight)
Sometimes people come to me, saying they want to meet their soul mate. I usually respond be careful what you wish for. A soul mate usually arrives to teach you a soul life lesson - something which will fundamentally shift your perspective and force you towards growth. It's never simple.
People want the lovers card, all fireworks and glory.
But anyone who has been in a long term relationship can tell you that love, life long love, is a marathon, not a sprint. There is no couple that has been together for a significant amount of time, that hasn't had downs as well as ups in their time together.
That's why I prefer the two of cups for relationships, where you face each other and give equal amounts of energy, drinking from each others cups, and filling each other up.
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