Did a reading a while ago for a girl from Brisbane. She had a significant love affair but it didn't work. It wasn't her fault, it wasn't his fault, but he had just opened a new business and all his energy was there and the timing was wrong. I said to her that he was one of 200 men she could possibly meet and marry and maybe it did work in another time line, but in this time line it didn't and she can't go back, she needs to move on. She liked the alternate time line option, sometimes you really can see a future with someone but it just doesn't pan out...
Now she is seeing a man 14 years her senior. It won't go anywhere, he's the Emperor, not flexible enough for her, but the sex is great, she drew the Queen of Wands. She laughed and agreed. She's leaving Sydney at the end of the year and she's going to keep on seeing him, because there's no point trying for something deeper when she knows she's moving.
Sometimes they are not the one, and both parties know it, but they are certainly good enough to be the one for right now, and as long as everyone knows that's the plan (he knows she plans to move to Melbourne for work in 2027) then a very good time can be had in the meantime.
