Valentine's Day is often a tricky one for lots of people. I do a lot of readings around this time with burning questions about how soon is too soon to go exclusive, what if you want exclusivity and s/he doesn't. What if you offer exclusivity and are turned down?
And there's just the social pressure - something to tell your friends about, something to show on insta. Something about the appearance being more important than the actual event...
So I come from a very grounded place when it comes to these sorts of things. First, we sort out what you really want, as opposed to what you are expected to want, or what your partner/parents/peer groups want for you. And once we sort that out, we see if you feel you can ask for it. And if you ask for it, how will they other person respond? The cards are so clear here, it's astonishing. So often my clients go, yeah, that's what I'm scared of, or I knew that would be the outcome.
And then you get to work with the knowledge you now have...
So wishing you a grounded, happy Valentine's Day
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