There are some cards I think of as more typically New York than other places, that I see more here than I have previously – of course it might be a more second millennium kind of card too, as I have been reading here for the past 10 years. My next few posts will be about these cards.
I’ll start with the Seven of Cups.
|7 cups, Rider Waite deck|
The seven of cups is about having choice, but instead of feeling empowered, “I have all these options!” the drawer feels overwhelmed, “I have all these options but can only chose one…” and there are consequences, seen and otherwise, of each choice. So now I stand paralyzed (or crouch if you are looking at the beautiful card below!) not knowing which cup to select, which cup to let go of.
I find that New York in particular has this obsession with keeping options open. But what I tell people is that after a while, making no decision becomes its own decision, and some of these cups will naturally disappear if they are not chosen. Some may go for a short time, some may go forever, that is life. But choosing a cup, finding a direction, even if it not the ultimate direction but merely a side path, gives life energy.
|7 of cups, Klimpt deck|
People often say to me that they don’t want to have regrets. I think standing paralyzed and not choosing creates a regret of its own. So my other answer is that regrets are not cancer (unless we make them so.) Regrets are risks that don’t pay off in the short term in the way that we had hoped. And even if they make it to the long term (I will always regret not buying New York real estate when we arrived in 2002!) it doesn't mean that we should not act. It just means that we lived and learnt.
|7 of cups, urban tarot deck|
So these Seven of cups remind us to make a choice and live with it, and if it doesn't pan out the way we had hoped, then we will course correct and make another one…